Feminist Life Coaching

You didn’t lose yourself overnight. You disappeared one tiny accommodation at a time. Here are 7 signs you’ve lost yourself and how to start finding your way back.If you’ve been feeling flat, overly accommodating, or strangely absent from your own life, this post names the quiet ways identity loss happens without making you the problem. It unpacks seven deeply familiar signs of self-abandonment, from describing yourself only through what you do for others to feeling guilty for wanting anything that’s just for you. More than a list, it offers a sharp, feminist reframe for why this happens and a grounded reminder that lost is not the same as gone. The version of you that felt vivid, alive, and fully herself may be buried, but she is not gone.

Everything looks fine on paper, but you still feel flat, restless, or quietly furious. That doesn’t make you ungrateful. It means something real is asking to be heard.

After one HR call, I stopped trying to be the good girl at work. If you’re a woman being told you’re too sensitive for expecting respect, this is for you.

Women compete instead of support each other not because of jealousy or cattiness, but because the patriarchy installed a scarcity myth—the false belief that there's only room for one woman at the table. When you recognize that your success doesn't diminish mine, and when you stop seeing other women as threats, everything shifts: your power multiplies, solidarity becomes possible, and together, you become genuinely unstoppable. This is what happens when women stop fighting each other and start going feral together.